just i dont know lah.....imgetting a bit cranky...and i think im going abit off also..and right now im missing someone who as a friend i can tell everything to and not 1.scare off the person 2. make them think they have very incompetant leaders and 3. wont be stumbed by what i say...oh yes one more thing i learnt.....give very vauge generalans which cldapply to anytihng and everything and yet nothing so it seemslike u are answering the question but u actually are but arent giving any details...so yah....basically im nowadays more careful of what i actually say..and what i actually say depends on the people around me.....