i learnt sometinhg last year..okayi guess its kinda late to post it but hey better late then never......it takes up alot alot of time and energy to actually care about someone and if u start caring about everything it wld kill u or exhust uand drain uof every ounce of energy in u.......so i guess mypoin is tt we sldnt care somuch??okaywiat tts not my point...........my point is tt ucan care onlyup to a certain extent after tt its thier life and u cant doantihng about it........